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>>111757
Women are not doing the one thing that makes them women, kek.

>>111736
Fuck. I hate this philosophy on women, but I cant say for sure that it's wrong. Personally I still think that women should get the death penalty for looking at another wive's husband.

>>111760
>Personally I still think that women should get the death penalty for looking at another wive's husband
This too is a male failing. The father failed by marrying his daughter to a lesser man. The husband failed by being lesser. Society (created by men) failed by allowing females this freedom

Both Sharia Law and Chad would not experience such problems

>>111761
Your thinking is inherently flawed because you assume that women can accurately judge male value.

>>111762
Women are often far better at judging male value than males themselves are, hence this garbage hell world that males have created by having broken value systems
>male value systems creates systemic enslavement of all echelons of society to the Epstein class
>female value systems create chad criminals that don't pay taxes to pedophiles

>>111736
It's like Id neg her that her father must've been high for the last 20 years. I mean when we were back at uni. But it's kinda a legit comment. She's a turbo feminist cat lady. Egotistical, whiny, self absorbed, hair trigger disgust reflex, scaredy cat. Actually unhealthy obsession with horror film (she legit does not watch action or even most thrillers). She likes to be scared in the comfort of her own home. Nothing is off limits, directors, writers etc should make their vision, have balls, but god forbid some Chad lite makes a pass at me - ew, weird! Idk how she still has long hair.

>>111763
Alright you're just a schizophrenic or terminally online psychotic. Your ideas dont make any sense. Literally no political theorist from max left to max right postulates your theory.

>>111770
Shut up, what >>111763 said was amazing. IDK about the rest of this topic but >>111763 deserves to be in a billboard that Bill Gates has to see on his way to morning molestation

Do local businesses even exist anymore? I was looking into a local HVAC company and found it bizarre that they had thousands of positive reviews with a 4.9 rating on google even though everyone complains about them constantly in real life, and as it turns out they were bought out by some private equity firm. Meanwhile, I imagine you'd be effectively black-balled and spammed with negative reviews if you tried to start your own independent HVAC company.Truly wagecucks are only allowed to be goy-slave cattle in The Land of The Free™.

Was going to make a new thread about this, but there's something fucky going on with the captcha and the code never cycles.

>>111774
Google reviews are mostly fraudulent now. I needed some legal work done years ago and after contacting many lawyers, only one, a guy with blank, negative reviews took my case. He did a great job, and after trying several times to leave him a good review, on different accounts, in different manners, I absolutely could not leave him a review. This has never happened before or since

82% of new homes built in JewSA are part of HOAs. Numbers are similar in other Anglophone countries. You don't really "own" a home in a HOA/strata, dealing with HOA Karens is worse than property tax because they micromanage every little thing you're allowed to do and impose fines.

The cuckservative Anglos' answer to the Henry Nowak murder will be to impose more authoritarianism and surveillance. More cameras with live facial recognition in neighborhoods and buildings, more neighborhood street patrol Karens, greater powers to HOAs and stratas to impose fines without successful challenges, age verification and ID collection for VPN usage, more "loicenses" and permits required for things people in other countries take for granted, and so on. All that instead of just remigration. It's in the Anglo's blood to be a busybody Karen.

>>111820
I bought property without an HOA out in the boonies in the deep south- land beyond the sight and hearing of men. Within one month some random karen called code enforcement about land she could neither see nor hear, and they began to crawl up my ass

>The cuckservative Anglos' answer to the Henry Nowak murder will be to impose more authoritarianism and surveillance
Crimes are an excuse for them to further eliminate the rights of the population. They won't ever actually stop crime because it helps them to achieve their goals

>>111822
What could you possibly have done to have some witch lurking around your land?

I don't think I've seen my landlord in about a year, now. I've been trying to move but god damn if there's literally nothing affordable out there. What's a man have to do to disappear in a hole somewhere and not be bothered.

>>111855
Live in your car. Save up money. Buy land somewhere eventually

>>111855
live in a bush eat your own shit

>>111859
But I'm not Indian.

>>111862
yeah right

>>111864
yeah right

Why are anglos like this?

>>111872
whats wrong with blocking CP?

>>111876
What's wrong with your reading comprehension?

>>111880
Nothing is based in the Jew.S.A

I'm gonna try jalapenos on my nachos

>>111887
why?

>>111888
Trying new things or just stuff I havent had in a while. I'm usually pretty minimalist with nachos, like 3-4 ingredients total even.

Dreaming about 12 Arab girls bringing me honey and lemon tea/drink and painkillers. And being attentive and loving.

Avid why aren't you out rioting in the streets with your fellow chavs

>>111887
>>111888
>>111889
avid doesn't eat spicy food because a capsaicin shit might burn his black friends' willies

>>111805
Tomorrow will be day 4 of drinking laundry detergent. I think this is the essential missing component for health

<another article
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4712861/

I did that shit again where I saw some cuties irl but didn't know how to open them and then after the situation was done came up with the perfect entry.

>>111949
>where I saw some cuties irl but didn't know how to open them
The best way to approach women, is don't. Nobody likes to be walked up to and interrupted unless they're dropping clear signs and signaling green lights. There's uncountable numbers of them that also depend on context, and you really can't rely on just one like "she touched her hair while blinking at me, she wants the d!". Attraction is art, not science. Social choreography is a skillset you can cultivate, and by the way something like autism or plain old introversion is an asset here: training trumps talent, skill surpasses instinct.

Anyway, a woman is like a cat: chase her and she'll flee. Let her come to you. With the caveat that many ARE shy and might need a little coaxing, especially if you're so cool she feels unworthy unless YOU give her some green lights by being presentable and approachable (put that damn phone down! and stop scowling, too). But nearly always you wanna attract, not chase. If she's not approaching you, you aren't interesting enough. Yes, appearance does help just like in a job interview. And it's really not that hard to be passing fashionable (unless you're truly math-brained and need to be explained why you shouldn't tuck your polo in your beltless cargo shorts, grampa) if you treat it as yet another artform like music or animu or vidya or whatever. But getting your foot in the door isn't enough if you have nothing about you interesting enough to back it up.

How do you become interesting, though? An interestING person, is an interestED person. That is, interested in the world around them with plenty to talk about, passionate about their projects and self-improvement, and so on. The more you focus on yourself, the more she'll focus on you, too. And the more you improve, the less weak and "nice guy" you'll be. You don't want to be weak (and women are VERY GOOD at sniffing out fakes, it's easier to become the cool dude than to be a geek playing pretend-alpha AKA a pickup artist), because every woman already has a vagina that's a major pain to put up with and clean up after, she doesn't need a second weepy hole whose moods are tied to the tides of life. Women HATE harmless men, but love the peaceful protectors she can rely on. As one woman put it: "I don't need you to murder anyone, I just need to know you can!"

tl;dr: focus on yourself and become interesting and strong and someone, somewhere, will notice you, senpai. That doesn't just mean physical strength, though being HEALTHILY fit helps tremendously because a strong body is a healthy body (which is attractive), a healthy body is a strong and healthy mind (which is even more beautiful than only being good-looking), a strong and healthy mind is a strong and healthy spirit (which is hot as fuarrk, breh). In one way that helps is a person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.

And finally: practice some active-listening skills. It really helps (not just with women, but getting along with people in all areas of life) especially if you're actually autistic, or simply introverted and/or self-absorbed. Nobody likes an unwarranted sense of self-importance, nobody thinks you're as cool as you think you are. You have two ears but only one mouth for a reason. Women love a man who listens, who is like a tree or a mountain who provides her shade and space (women deep down are terrified of how weak they are, how unable they are to directly affect the world around them), who makes her "feel seen" instead of only being looked at like even half-way attractive ones are all the time.

>and then after the situation was done came up with the perfect entry
Stairwell wisdom or however it's said, IIRC, as a French idiom. Or was it that old tvtrope called "fridge brilliance"? Perhaps both.

>>111951
Good post. Men really should just focus on themselves

>>111951
chatgpt is fun!

>>111956
An AI's ethics filters would have absolutely disallowed such political-incorrectness as daring to state the truth of women greatly benefiting from mens' protection and guidance. It WOULD have over-emphasized how men greatly benefit from womens' "cheerleading" and other supporting roles, though! But we're in a deeply unbalanced sociopolitical climate at the moment to the point of making everyone forget how much we need each other and everything is falling apart because of it. But all that arises will eventually fall (including any given empire), and we just so happen to be speeding towards the end of a civilizational death-and-rebirth cycle. Best thing that can be done by those of us who have an inkling of an idea of what's going on and what may be coming, is batten down the hatches and try and survive winter long enough to make it to springtime.

>>111778
>I absolutely could not leave him a review. This has never happened before or since

What was stopping you?

>>111983
tldr

>>111951
>here: training trumps talent, skill surpasses instinct.
Not really. It's difficult when your learning process is analytical and it's not something you can focus on and brute force consequence-free either.

>>111987

Yes, it is very difficult, and the consequences are clear and present for chronic misfits with abnormal upbringing. It is exhausting and demoralizing to spend your whole life being treated by many like every damn thing you do, say, think, feel, and believe is wrong or unwelcome. Common-sense counsel won't work for people who happen to be statistical outliers and that really sucks. That doesn't mean you're "less than", there's nothing wrong with you at all. That also doesn't mean you aren't stuck with disregarding most folk wisdom as largely irrelevant suggestion. Not your fault, but it's sadly your responsibility as no one's coming to save you. That is harsh, but so is life.

If you find or are given advice or instruction, ask yourself: how much is the advice-giver like myself? If "not at all", maybe do or believe the opposite. You must learn discernment, what to regard and what to discard whether through one or other glowing rectangle (even some dead blog or sub-50-followed channel of a random nobody who clearly went through what you're going through), some underrated fiction or lyrics writer who may or may not have "meant it", a religious-philosophical-whatever loudmouth from thousands of years ago (or just a handful of decades), it doesn't matter. The shape and color of the bottle is unimportant, read only the message within. But knowing what bottles to avoid or open in the first place also requires well-honed and well-oiled discernment! Whether or not you're engaging or theorizing in science to aid your situation -- which is an excellent toolset of discernment for those whose learning process is analytical, so long as one avoids the pit of dogmatic "scientism" -- consider the following cherry-picks (only the picks that apply here) from some other page that happens to be scientific approached to Buddhism by a physicist with a Ph. D, but all that's irrelevant in this thread (the message, not the bottle):

> Today, we are fortunate to have a well-established scientific method to rule out "bad theories" and focus on "good theories." ...
> What is the "scientific method"?
> An acceptable "theory" must have,
> • power (ability) to explain as many things that we experience in this world,
> • consistency, i.e., not one explanation can be inconsistent with another within the same theory,
> • the power to predict, i.e., point out things that are still unknown but could be verified in the future.
> If one wants to read more about the scientific method, I can recommend two books: 'The Structure of Scientific Revolutions' by Thomas Kuhn is a classic; 'The Beginning of Infinity' by David Deutsch is a recent and more easy-to-read book...
> Thus: explanatory power, consistency, and prediction power are the three measures of the validity of a scientific theory.

> Source for the curious:
> https://puredhamma.net/dhamma-and-science/dhamma-and-science/

In any case, whatever message you apply or however you "draw the blueprint yourself" will take a lot longer, thrice the effort to achieve a third the results of the fortunate masses born and raised with fully-functioning instincts for integration. But we can only play the hand we were dealt, and some of us didn't get the "instruction manual on how to socialize before leaving the womb". There's a little whitepill hiding under this massive suppository of a blackpill, though! If you were unfortunate to begin at rock-bottom, this liability can become an asset once you realize that you're in a position to climb and through much effort soaring far higher than the fortunate masses, whose personal growth are linear whereas yours can be quadratic.

It's similar to how one who starts life in poverty CAN learn to save money and so on to surpass even those born with silver spoons in their mouths who have no idea how to grow money, no clue what to do should they suddenly be cut off from the bank of mom-and-dad, don't appreciate what they have until they don't, and went through private schools to learn how systems work whereas everyone else are trained in obedience by those who've learned how systems work. And besides: after spending your youth and much of adulthood being beaten (verbally, physically...) and rejected so consistently, to git so gud that you'll be dating your former bully's daughters while they in their 40's are caught in the quicksand of wage-slavery because they didn't know better than to knock up their girlfriend in their late teens / early tweens and are now both obese and bitter? Call it "poindexter's revenge". But really, don't make things like "marrying a model half your age one day maybe" your end-goal, because that's out of your control. Your focus should be on YOU and what YOU can do and control like cultivating discipline and wisdom (over mere "book knowledge", it's unproductive to be a useless container of facts unless you plan to to use them well) instead of chasing fleeting feelings like motivation and happiness (or getting more ass than a toilet seat) that are bound to be blown away by the bittiest breeze. Doesn't it seem wiser to build your foundation on rock than on sand? If you find prime tween pussy at the end of your rainbow, awesome. If not, fine. Try to be less needy for female validation, or being rich or fit or whatever. And besides, they find no-confidence manginas (they're now called "simps" and "soyboys"; nothing new under the sun) a major turn-off. Even decent-looking women nearly always end up sick to death of half the human population begging for her approval! No matter what, in dating or wealth or getting "jacked": learn to let go of expectations beyond your control and walk on.

If you are autistic or thereabouts in one way or another: learn to redirect that special interest hyperfocus from gaming lore, or making music genre obsessing or collecting toys or whatever your whole personality, to: how2socialize, /fit/ gainz, finances, and most important a well-paying career (but how much you're paid is less important than what you save, don't get greedy for that 5060 Ti just about anything at ~1/3 the cost works about as well for most use-cases, the cheapest and most expensive of anything is throwing your money away) that won't completely drain your willpower (not even 70k/yr is worth the personal price of endless stress, depression, and health issues in "keeping up with the joneses") by forcing you to expend tremendous energy on "masking" even though you still will in some capacity ("being considerate" is not masking, by the way, but don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm).

But autists are usually smart (and analytical) enough to find and implement ten-thousand little tricks to minimize the damage and optimally recover via self-accommodation, periodic selective isolation, simple moral living (don't have to go all the way to "minimalism" or "underconsumption-core" as your whole personality, but they're decent enough lifestyle guidelines to get started), and so on. In something like plumbing, garbageman, or road repair (and you're being paid to lift, save on gym fees!) there's not nearly as much "primate politics" and "schoolyard status-climbing". But short of living in an isolated cabin on a mountain and going hunting and fishing the rest of your life, as tempting as that may sound, you will have to sacrifice some individuality in order to be part of a group; but at the same time try to avoid anywhere you'd have fake a personality as hard as as a movie actor or pop idol in order to be tolerated but never celebrated! Tossing another idea to whomever wants it: something like a mortician or merchant marine is not only an excellent moral service to your community (but don't underestimate just how much a grossly underrated contribution to society is being in construction and farming!) being able to say "I work for a funeral home" or "I spend half the year on the open ocean" makes for an excellent ice-breaker. Something like those helps free up mental, emotional, and most importantly social energies for self-improvement, socializing how and where you damn well please. To git gud at skill-grinding your integration stat: maybe consider joining a fitness or artist club, volunteering for a food pantry, attending your church's post-sermon Bible study... whatever gets you off the computer and talking to anyone other than cashiers and nurses at least a few times a week! Here are yet more pious platitudes tossed out there, feel free to pick and choose whichever resonates: work to live not live to work, and to succeed in any endeavor it's a good bet to do what "everyone else" isn't. For example, most still want to be a "content-creator" (ugh), but more and more are realizing what a dead end that is for everyone who weren't part of that "online gold rush" curve about 15-20 years back. Wouldn't it be awesome to right now be ahead of the current curve and join the "offline gold rush", striking while the iron is hot?

There's nothing wrong with you, though unfortunately you're going to have to accept and own that you just so happen to be one of the "special snowflakes" seemingly everyone hates -- but don't fall for the trap of being prideful at being different just like you shouldn't let the pendulum swing to the other end of feeling Other and Less-Than, you are neither better nor worse than da normiez, forgive them for they know not what they do. Only you know your particular subscription of issues so it's going to have to be you to resist the blackpill and find your own solutions. It's so easy to get caught in the quicksand of following "normality" that doesn't apply to your complex and terrible life situation. There is no correct answer (make A move, then MAKE IT the right move), but keep the faith no matter what happens and get your ass up. We're all gonna make it, bro.

>>111984
All of my reviews on that business were shadowbanned

>>111951
>As one woman put it: "I don't need you to murder anyone, I just need to know you can!"
>Women love a man who listens, who is like a tree or a mountain...
Why else would so many women voraciously consume self-insert "beauty and the beast" style romance novels and bodice-rippers about vampires, werewolves, and so on? ("Women don't watch porn, but they read the shit out of it!") Even the earliest known story, the Epic of Gilgamesh, has the subplot of Enkidu where a woman "tames" the wild man demigod or something like that. So clearly this feeling of dangerous men who nevertheless loves and protects her resonates with women on a primal level. Wouldn't you, too, like to be her "wild man", her "dormant volcano" who CAN erupt if she and both your children (current or potential future) are under threat?

>>112008
nah sounds exhausting

>>112010
It indeed is.

Another beautiful spring day