No.98237
r/indonesia
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15 min. ago
Odd-Repair-9330
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I am tired with non-sexual relationship with my gf, should I break up?
Heart to Heart
So a bit of background. Currently, I was having a relationship with my GF for almost a year. We met over dating apps, and honestly she (25F) was cute to me.
Problem is I (28M) was sexually active before and I was not getting laid this past year. She is actually conservative type, so no premarital sex.
I tried to channel my sexual needs to something else, but eventually I will be bored with my hand soon. It’s not her fault as she makes it very clear she wants to wait till marriage, and I agree at that time without thinking the ramifications more clearly.
We only kissed so far, and I tried to touch her boobs once, but she is not comfortable so I stop doing it again. I actually don’t mind not doing penetrative sex, but some bj and mmc should be my bare minimum 🫢
Now I was thinking that breaking up might be the solution. Although I have invested significant amount of money (dates, fine dining, etc) and energy into the relationship. I always picked her up with my car, and making sure she gets the best date every weekend.
I need your advice guys, I love her but cheating is not an option. And certainly I can’t wait till marriage. I am afraid being more blunt with her will result termination of our relationship
